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Pregnant after 2 miscarriages

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Mama0 · 02/06/2018 22:49

Hoping that putting this out there and possibly hearing from someone who understands will make me feel better. Im pregnant again after having 2 miscarriages, I am 25 years old, do not smoke or drink and generally fit and well. my first pregnancy went very smoothly and I had my little girl. However the last two pregnancies unfortunately ended at around 6 weeks. I'm now pregnant again and to be honest I just feel numb and when I do feel something I'm anxious. I'm trying so hard to be positive but I can't help feeling I'm going to get to that 6 week mark again and it will happen again.

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helloooomeee · 03/06/2018 13:52

Flowers My first 2 pregnancies ended in miscarriage between 6 and 10 weeks. I then went on to have a healthy pregnancy but was very anxious throughout. I was convinced at every appointment I was going to be told there was no heartbeat and even when I was in labour I thought things were going to go wrong. The best help I got was from a very understanding gp who saw me every 2 weeks and did some rational talking to me!

I now have 2 healthy ds's. I am currently losing another pregnancy but I'm truly blessed with an amazing family and feel less devastated than I have after previous losses.

OurMiracle1106 · 03/06/2018 13:56

My first 2 pregnancies ended in missed miscarriages. Like you I couldn’t attach myself or feel anything for the pregnancy until after my first scan (as that’s when I had found out) I wouldn’t nickname the baby until after my 20 week scan and even then I was still worried. However my son was born at full term. Healthy and happy.

Thinking of you. Flowers

Mama0 · 03/06/2018 15:27

Thank you both so much for sharing your story. I understand, if it wasn't for my little family I don't know what I'd have done. I did actually go to speak to my gp which is very unlike me but so glad I did and she was very understanding so I think I will definitely go back. Just need to stay positive, hoping all goes well, my gp has offered me a reassurance scan so hoping that will help x

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Emmafh3 · 22/06/2018 22:37

Im in the same boat op! First pregnancy went smoothly, still 25, don't drink or smoke and work out often. Two miscarriages so far and just found out I'm pregnant again. Terrified out of my mind and feel like the next 8 weeks are going to be torture.
What week did your go get a scan for you? And how is the pregnancy going?

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