7 days

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It's been 7 days today, i feel like im going to break down. It's so hard, trying to stay strong for my 2 other children but I just wish I wasn't here anymore this pain is to much.

It feels as I'm the only who cares, no one else cries for her which makes me feel she isn't cared for and loved. Even her daddy doesn't cry for her and had been back at work since 2 days after we had her.

People just refer to her as a miscarriage but she wasn't she was my beautiful girl, you could see her features so clear. Her button nose, tiny ears, fingers and toes
A few family members have said why do a service? Why give her a remembrance stone which breaks my heart even more.
She may have been born to soon but deserves these things
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I am so so sorry you are going through this. We are all here for you ❤️ Sending you big hugs xx

So sorry for your loss.

It's normal to feel how you're feeling and of course you want to commemorate her properly. How far along were you when you lost her?

KnitKitty
She was 20+2

Have you been offered help? Counselling? If you aren't getting support from your family, please find someone else to talk to. Have you looked at the Miscarriage Assosiation? They have a number you can call to talk to someone and leaflets about late miscarriage which may offer some helpful advice about commemorating your beautiful little girl.

I am so, so sorry you are going through this and feeling alone with it.

Do you have any friends you can talk to?

I am under a therapist at the moment for Anxiety but have not been back since I lost my daughter but hoping to go back next week.

I've managed to speak with my partner and family today and they all feel as though they need to be strong for me as they think I may have a total breakdown.

I tried the miscarriage association but was out of the opening hours so left a message for a call back.

All my friends are either avoiding me or are just treating me like nothings happened. Which I hate as even though it hurts and I cry it's a comfort to be able to talk about her .

I can understand your family feeling concerned about you, and maybe they're just dealing with things in a very different way to you. I'm sure they're upset about the loss too but don't want to make you feel worse by showing it. Maybe send them and your friends a couple of links from the Miscarriage Association for them to read. They have lots of leaflets to read, including ones for people who know someone who has lost their baby which might be good for them to read.

www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/Someone-You-Know.pdf

Did they give you a call back today?