Miscarriage

[Lisasanford]

I'm totally lost I had an ectopic pregnancy at the end of November and fell pregnant within weeks. A scan at 6 weeks showed all was well but today just a few days before our 12 week scan I have miscarried, am devastated. My dad is dying and this had been keeping me going on. Will I ever get over this sadness? Any reassurance would mean so much.

Hi

So sorry to hear about this and about your Dad. Can't provide much reassurance having not been through an mc myself but I am certain that as with any loss you will never forget but the pain will fade and in the future you will look back and appreciate what you have even more because of the journey you have gone through.

Thinking of you x

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know the heartache of miscarriage all too well I'm afraid and I know how sad and disheartened you must feel now. It must be especially hard with your dad being so unwell. My advice is to let yourself grieve for your loss, lean on you partner, friends, whoever you have around you that cares and don't give up hope. I had a happy ending after multiple losses and hopefully you will have your happy ending too. Take each day at a time and cry as much as you need to. Sending you a big hug at this sad time

Hi OP, I just wanted to say how very sorry am. How utterly unfair. Take all the time you need to grieve. Post on here if it helps as well. In time you will feel a little stronger eventually but right now just take each day at a time and take it easy if possible. I'm just so sorry that this has happened to you xx

Thank you so much for the lovely message. I think it's the way it happened too I was bleeding so much we had to call an ambulance and then I was stuck on a trolley for ages bleeding uncontrollably and in serious pain before I was seen. Eventually the gynaecologist pulled my baby out. It was horrific and painful and I am completely traumatised. Don't know where to begin to even start to feel better. My whole body and being is in bits.

I'm so so sorry I had a missed miscarriage at 13 weeks and it was awful but I promise the emotional pain does get easier in time x

@Lisasanford I am so so so sorry you have had to go through such a traumatic experience
I don't really know what to say that will help but I just wanted to offer my condolences and send you hugs and strength
I am currently going through my 3rd MC right now It's just so horrific really and makes me feel so helpless- there are no answers as to why this has happened
All I know is time will heal and we will grow from this
Take care of yourself

I am so sorry to hear you are going through this again I just don't have the words but we will survive xxxxxx