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Baby's due date today

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Cocoabean25 · 27/08/2017 08:30

Hi everyone,

Don't really have anything to say apart from it feels rubbish :( I miss that baby so much and today it feels even worse xx

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yellowfrontdoor · 27/08/2017 08:39

Cocoa I'm so so sorry for your loss.
I have my 1st due date coming up in October & I'm dreading it.
Have you got DP/family/friends there today to support you?
Be kind to yourself, cry/scream/rage at the world, I'm working on mine & I can't decide if that's a good thing or a bad thing!
Have a very unmumsnetty hug from me Flowers

TheLongRains · 27/08/2017 08:41

I'm so sorry :( I haven't reached the due date yet, but I'm dreading it. Are you doing anything to mark it? I'm thinking of making it a tradition to buy a big bunch of flowers and make a little cake each year. Just for my own sake, really. My husband wouldn't be bothered either way, he's very different to me, and my older child didn't know I was pregnant, so I wouldn't do it as a big statement, just a private little recognition.

Sorry again for your loss :( Flowers

Misssmoo · 28/08/2017 19:17

My due date is approaching and can't stop thinking what should of been..hugs to all xx

MouseLove · 29/08/2017 18:49

I'm so sorry. My due date is Monday and I'm dreading it. We had a mmc at 10 weeks TTC #1. I am not pregnant again and I am due af the same day. I know it will probably break me since deep down I know it's not possible for me to fall pregnant with my short cycles and late ovulation. DH and I have taken the day off work, think we might go out somewhere to distract myself but I just know I'll be weepy. DH has been upset recently too. We are so desperate to be parents. Sending hugs. Xxx

Cocoabean25 · 29/08/2017 19:41

Thanks for all your replies. I didn't speak to the baby's dad as we're not together anymore but it would have been nice to have spoken to him like he said we were going to. Spent a lot of in upset and in tears but tried to distract myself as I was staying with family at the time. Wish now I'd spent it alone and go for a quiet walk or something xxx

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GoodMorning1 · 30/08/2017 18:14

So sorry for your loss.

I buy flowers each year.

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