2 months on

[voxnihili]

I'm just looking for people's experiences. I'm too months post mc and still feel devastated about it. I frequently shed a tear or two over what has happened. My best friend is due at the same time I was due. I really expected to feel better by now. I don't think I'm depressed as when I'm busy I'm fine and don't feel unable to concentrate etc and I've had no issues at work. I'm not at work at the moment (school holidays) so maybe that is why I feel so bad - too much time to think).

I feel so stupid too as I was only 6 weeks.

Don't feel stupid at all. I still have said days and miscarried in January. I definitely still felt really sad after 2 months and even now I still cry. I'm also on school holidays (am a teacher) and it's definitely harder when you don't keep busy. Don't be too hard on yourself as what you're feeling is completely normal xxx

So sorry to hear what's happened to you Vox. I have good days and bad days (currently going through my sixth miscarriage). Enjoy the good days and let yourself grieve on the bad. It's a cliché but time is a great healer. One day soon you'll be holding your rainbow baby.