Feeling heartbroken all over again

[HansSolo22]

I lost my baby at 10 weeks in January, my due date would have been 1st August. I fell pregnant again in May but I also then went on to miscarry again. I would have been 12 weeks on 30th July. I thought I'd coped well with the losses but now, as these dates are approaching, I'm feeling so lost and desperately sad.

I want to try again but I fear that all the joy will be taken away from me and I won't be able to enjoy another pregnancy. I just feel so sad and I don't know how to cope as the dates get closer. I'm just lost :-(

Hi hanssolo. So sorry for the losses you have had. Don't have any advice but wanted you to know that I understand how I feel. I lost my baby at 7 weeks in January and would have been due on August 27th. As soon as July hit I started to think how close I would have been to giving birth and have been struggling quite a bit. Dreading August. I'm trying to cope by taking some time for myself. Going out for walks along the beach helps me but doing whatever you enjoy and somewhere you can think things through might be good. Keep talking to people so they know how you're feeling and then they can be there when you need them. Big hugs xxx

Sending you big hugs. Be kind to yourself and come on here any time you need someone to talk to xx

Thanks cocoabean and k0013, it really helps to know there is support out there and i find it so much easier talking freely here as i don't want to upset my husband and family by talking about it. No one knows what to say anyway so I try to just keep it to myself which probably doesn't help. But thank you both, your kind words really do mean a lot xx