Hi, I had a scan a few weeks ago as I had such irregular periods I had no idea of finding out how far gone I was. My breasts had swollen, my stomach was bloated and so I was surprised when she said it was too early to locate a heartbeat. She estimated I was about 5 weeks pregnant. I was advised to come back 2 weeks later. I had a scan followed by an internal scan. Again no heartbeat. She said it has increased in size and has booked me in again in 10 days as she said it was still too early. My gut instinct is not good. She said nothing positive or negative but I am sick with worry and stress. I am 42 and this would be my lovely partners first child and we stupidly told people. I don't know what to do with myself. I can barely face anyone and I'm so desperately sad at the thought of losing this much wanted baby. I have had no bleeding or cramps. The feral pole measured at 3.9mm and the sac has increased in size a lot but no heartbeat. I feel so scared and alone.