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Am I having a miscarriage

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Banana82 · 20/07/2016 14:08

I need some help. I'm 7 weeks pregnant and just been standing in the kitchen when felt something come out and pool into my knickers. Felt down and there was lots of fresh blood. I've been sat on the toilet and felt a clot come out. Not sure how big it came out quite easily. I have no pain. I'm so scared and upset I'm just sitting here on the toilet. Is there any hope? Sad

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purpleviolet1 · 27/07/2016 19:57

So sorry you are going through this banana. I had a mmc at 12 weeks and a natural mc at 6 weeks. It's horrible isn't it. The 'not officially' knowing and waiting part. I hope time passes quickly for you and you get answers quickly. Xx

LottieL · 31/07/2016 11:34

I'm really sorry you are suffering. You are in my thoughts xx

Banana82 · 03/08/2016 19:08

I just wanted to drop in and update everyone. I had my scan yesterday morning and unfortunately it wasn't good news. I was told my baby had died probably only 2/3 days ago. I am now deciding which option to take.

Thanks for all your support. I'm feeling pretty miserable at the moment and reading the information from the midwife just makes me cry. I feel drained. I want it over with quickly so I can move on.

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KazG71 · 03/08/2016 19:31

So so sorry to hear that. Sending you hugs and hope that it goes smoother for you than it has for me. I had a scan today too three weeks after initial bleed. Finally been given all clear and it's all out at last after medication forceps etc etc. They also confirmed I am ovulating now which means body getting back to normal again. Thinking of you and if you need to vent do so!! I know I have these last few weeks. Still not been back at work but guess I have to start getting back to normality again

Banana82 · 03/08/2016 20:43

I'm sorry to hear that you are suffering Kaz. How far gone were you? It's such a horrible time. I'm not sure I can face work and everyone asking if I am better etc and having to make up some excuse as to why I have been off.

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KazG71 · 03/08/2016 21:26

I was almost 9 weeks. Would have been 12 weeks this weekend. It's such an horrendous time and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I'm self employed anyway so didn't have to worry about telling anyone except clients. Luckily there have all just accepted I have been in hospital and not asked why

Banana82 · 04/08/2016 14:12

I'm sorry for your loss Kaz. It is horrendous. I'm hoping I can get away with just saying "yes thanks much better now" when people ask and not go into any more details but I just know certain nosey people will ask. Do you have any other children or was your baby your first?

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JOMH1982 · 04/08/2016 21:03

So sorry to read your news, Bananafish. Sending you love and hugs xx

KazG71 · 04/08/2016 21:29

I have one daughter who will be 20 this month. Tried to conceive many times since and it hasn't happened. Then out of the blue 20 years later I fall unexpectedly only for it to be taken away again. At 45 years old now I'm wondering if it was my last chance. Hope you're coping as well as expected x

talesofthevillage · 05/08/2016 10:27

So sorry Banana and Kaz Flowers

Banana82 · 05/08/2016 19:26

Oh Kaz that's so sad. I can't imagine your pain. Hope you are doing ok. Flowers

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Sal222 · 07/02/2022 01:31

Hi I’m a young sexually active young woman and last month I spontaneously bled with really bad back pain and stomach ache I never felt it before like this, I’m on the pill and I missed a couple pills the month before but didn’t notice any signs of pregnancy other than constipation, I felt a lot of pressure on my lower abdomen and went to the toilet and felt like I needed to poo but passed a rather large brown clot a few days after I felt the pain and the bleeding had gone I’m worried it was a miscarriage and was hoping I could get some clarity

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