It does get easier but takes time.
When we lost our first I was a wreck and so was my wife. It took months to get back to normal and nobody spoke about it again, just like everyone didn't care. Its not that they just dont realise how bad it is and how much it effects you.
My wife is a nurse and when she went back the next week she was giving vaccines to new born babies and trying to support people coming in for abortions and treating drug addicts and smokers who are heavily pregnant.
It took time to understand that everyone is entitled to a child we are nothing special and so just be happy for them. Also the odds of MC are 20-30% depending on what you read and we are a strong couple who can take this, where as it would break up other couples.
I took it particularly hard. I had none to talk to as we decided not to tell anyone (well my wife told 2 of her friends but I couldnt tell anyone lol) so i was trying to be strong for her and get on with everything, business, house etc...
I had to keep it all bottled up and just crack on. When we lost the next baby it was much easier and then the next was also easier as we were more prepared and less ignorant to the fact that it could happen.
After our last loss (christmas eve 2015) we got a puppy and this helped my wife no end (although added to me work load).
It becomes a rollercoaster ride now every month of hoping to get pregnant and then bitter dissapoitment when the negative result comes up and then the month you finally get the positive you smile but only for the briefest of seconds before you worry and panic constantly that something is going to go wrong.
We are now pregnant again and have our 12 week scan tomorrow (13 and 2 days it should be more or less) we have had private scans every week (From 6 weeks) and hopefuly everything is good. Our journey has been going on for 6 years and no one knows. Not my parents, best friends nobody and I might finally be able to tell people we are going to have a baby.
You may well know people going through this as well but on one speaks about it for some unknown reason but that is where the internet helps.
I tried running to take my mind off things, drunk a bottle of whisky one night to see if that helps. I know it all seems stupid now but I know where you are.
You need your partner now but to put on him to much as he is also going through the same thing as you but is unlikely to have anywhere to vent and that can be dangerous.
I know the world seems like shit now but the pain will pass in time but if you decided to get pregnant again the journey is not easy. Its full of stress and worry but one day hopefully you will have a little baby in your arms and that will make it all worth it.
use the online forums, read the online articles and documents. There is so much info out there. Depending how far gone you were the most likely explanation is that there was some sort of chromosomal problem and if it had continued to grow you may well have had a baby with severe problems, massive brain damage, could be on life support for ever etc This is no life for a baby and so the miracle that is our body performs quality control and rejects this fetus. This may sound so harsh and so im sorry for being so blunt but if you look at it objectivly you will see how cleaver our bodys are and why this is a good thing. It took a long time for me to come around to this but it makes sense and when things start to make sense it makes the process less painful.
By the time we lost of 2nd we both went back to work after the scan and just carried on as normal. We shed a tear that night but that was it we just understood this was not our time. It didn't stop us being jelous of our friends and family that were getting pregnant. We removed facebook as every week someone new would be posting scan photos and then we saw pregnant people smoking we just accepted that they are entitled to a baby just like we are.
Im not sure this helps in anyway but i hope my journey as let you know your not alone. Give it time and try again and one day you will be blessed with a little one.
good luck on your journey, this is just the beginning and one day you will be a parent.