Hi.
I lost my DD1 at 20 weeks in 2010. The tests run revealed a toxoplasmosis infection (likely cause of death) and that I had an underactive thyroid (which probably didn't help, but not so bad they though it was the cause IYSWIM).
I had bloods then done by the GP to check TSH, FT4, FT3 and the antibodies. At the time it appeared my thyroid was perking back up now the pregnancy was over, but my antibodies were borderline so they agreed that in a next pg I would need regular TSH checks.
I fell pg again very quickly and sure enough, the tests showed my TSH climbing steadily through the pregnancy which meant my thyroid was becoming more and more underactive and my FT4 (thyroxine) was dropping - this hormone is crucial and it dropping is not good for you or baby. I was put on thyroxine at 18 weeks and my TSH was stabilised.
After DD2 was born they wanted to take me off thyroxine. I wasn't sure as underactive thyroid can impact on breastfeeding, and who wants to be even more knackered with a newborn? We agreed to lower the dose and keep up regular blood tests.
Eventually when she was a year old my TSH went over 10 (the number you have to reach in our area to get out of the grey area and into the "there is a definite problem and we will stop ignoring it" territory). My antibodies had increased significantly and tada I was diagnosed with Hashimotos disease (autoimmune thyroid disease).
Result is that basically my natural thyroid function has declined steadily over time and my thyroxine dose has been increased accordingly.
I recently had another pregnancy which sadly ended in tfmr at 13 weeks for acrania and Edwards syndrome, but during this pregnancy my GP was booking me bloods for TSH and FT4 every 4 weeks and careful to adjust my thyroxine dose to keep TSH under 2 and FT4 in the upper half of the reference range (as per the NICE guidelines that I printed and wafted in her face). I was automatically consultant led due to the Hashimotos, but never got to actually see a consultant before I lost the baby.
Basically, an underactive thyroid (which is the end result of the autoimmune disease) is only a risk to pregnancy if it is untreated. If you are monitored (blood tests) frequently and on a thyroxine dosage that keeps your levels where they need to be, you are at no increased risk of problems. The issue is that you need to be really on it and be your own doctor. GPs are often woefully uninformed, and the wheels of the NHS turn slowly when it comes to taking any action. The most critical time is the beginning of pregnancy. After 14 weeks the baby's thyroid gland starts to work, but before that it is dependent on the mum's thyroid functioning well.
The care you need is outlined here, but in my experience you need to be really proactive to actually get it. If I get pregnant again I plan to increase my dose as soon as I get a positive test and then get to the GP to get in the system as it were. I am on 100mcg thyroxine daily at the moment, but know I need 125-150 in the first trimester, so I have kept a box of 25mcg and 50mcg tablets in my drawer that I can supplement my 100mcg dose with.
I'm so sorry you are in this nightmare x