2nd miscarriage- not sure I'll be able to conceive again now;(

[Chattycat78]

Hi guys,

I found out over a week ago that I was pregnant- huge shock as it was first month of trying after having ds1, who was conceived via ivf. Prior to him I also had a blighted ovum.
I started bleeding like a period yesterday so pretty sure its over.
However, obviously I'm gutted- but the hardest part is the fact that I'm really not sure that I will get pg again. I had to have ivf for my son because I have low ovarian reserve and the clinic were very pessimistic about the chances of natural conception so I m guessing it was a fluke and probably my only chance.
How do I deal with this knowing that this might be it? I feel awful.

Hello Chattycat, I'm really sorry for your loss. I guess there is no one way of dealing with the loss and hopelessness that you're feeling right now. It's a pretty dark place and pessimism reigns supreme.
Like everybody else says, take time out (to grieve, to feel the fear, to be angry, to feel numb and to do all the aforementioned over and over again). Talk to someone, and perhaps consider talking to a counsellor or therapist Put your mental state first.
Big hugs to you and the very best of luck . I hope you can back to a place of hope xxx

Thanks- I appreciate that. It is awful and I guess I just needed to vent.