I had an early miscarriage about a month ago and am really struggling with DH's response. He said he wouldn't have thought of it as a real baby until the 12 week scan and so doesn't really understand why I'm so upset. I think he thinks I totally jumped the gun in being so excited and planning for this baby at such an early stage when it's not unusual for things to go wrong. He's not been very supportive when I've been upset and gone off and sulked when I've got annoyed at his lack of support. I just feel so awful and alone at one of the hardest times in my life when he just doesn't see it as a baby lost at all. Has anyone else had this? How did you cope?