Me and my boyfriend had a 6 week scan and baby was so small (2mm) so we have always thought we were not quite at 6 weeks as we were only going by the date an iPhone app gave us where as digital pregnancy tests say about 2 weeks before that so would have been 4 weeks. Anyway my blood tests were rocketing up and the only thing they couldn't see was a heart beat due to baby size but they were so positive. I had pains but they said it's as my body is making so many great changes. They asked me to come back at my '8 weeks' as then there will be a heart beat. So at 8 weeks the nurse excitedly called me over and then her mood changed. Needed another internal and that's what worries me first as they said she should be big enough to see on normal scan now ( what I'm thinking is unless I'm not as far along as everyone thinks!) she saw no heart beat. The baby was 8.9mm so she said the baby had grown so it probably did have a heart beat now it's stopped, but she kept asking if I'm as far along as I thought and I stupidly said no I'm sure I'm 8 weeks my app said so. So she and another nurse confirmed miscarriage and said I can come have it surgically removed or bleed it out and that I should notice small spotting before that very soon. The new nurse said the pain is miscarriage pains.
Nearly a week later still no bleeding. My pregnancy symptoms are still here if not worse as I was sick the other day but not I'm wondering if it was travel sickness ( never happens usually though and was only 20 min drive) I have no more pains and no bleeding or spotting what's so ever just discharge and I swear my belly a getting bigger. Obviously I don't want to get my hopes up but I don't want to book myself in for a survival removal if there's a chance the baby is okay? Has anyone else had any experience like this? I know it's rare but it's been heard of before that the nurses got it wrong? Is my best bet trying to get one more confirmation scan before hand? Need my ladies help:( no one seems to understand as my friends are all single :/