Last year my precious dd was born sleeping at 32 weeks.
She was my first child so I was clueless about everything.
From 24 weeks I kept telling my midwife she wasn't moving much, she would just babble on about it being because I had an anterior placenta, listen to the hb and send me on my way. At 29 weeks I had an appt with her. I told her something wasn't right, she hardly moves at all, again I was told it was my placenta. I got on the bed to listen to hb, it took ages to find, it was high up where it hadn't been before, it sounded slow and faint, I said it didn't sound right, the reply was 'I'm the midwife, I know what I'm talking about, it's fine'.
I had a 31 week appt, when I got there a different midwife was covering for my midwife. I told her again about the movement, she explained the anterior placenta and got me on the couch to listen to hb, again it took ages, in the same place she found the noise id heard the previous appt, I said 'there it is', she said 'no that's your hb' and sent me straight to the hospital.
My worst fears were confirmed when they took me for a scan and I found out my baby had died.
I went into labor the following night, I got to the hospital where I went to labor ward. I was refused any form of pain relief for hours as I was told 'pain makes you bond with your baby'. I could hear a baby being born in the next room, it was awful. When my dd was born she was silent.
She was put in a cot and when the bereavement suite opened te next morning we were taken up.
I wasn't able to spend much time with her as she was deteriorating quickly. After a few hours I had to say goodbye to my little girl.
I had a postmortem done, I found out she had Infact died at 29 weeks.
I didn't complain as I was desperate to become pg again ASAP and was scared it would affect my care.
I had my rainbow baby in December 14.
Now this is what I wanted advice on. It began upsetting me that I did not get to spend very long with my dd. I did a great deal of research, e mailed sands, funeral directors etc and found quotes for cold cots. I was going to raise money to allow parents in the future to spend time with their babies. When I eventually got through to the bereavement suite I told them what I wanted to do, their response was 'why would you do that? We already have 4' 
It happened a few weeks ago, but it's getting to me now that bereaved parents have probably had the same idea as me to raise money to get these cots that aren't being used. It's also broken my heart that I couldn't spend time with my dd as they were too lazy(?) to get one out.
I don't know what to do, if anything. I feel so angry but the bereavement midwife was amazing to me at the time, so I wouldn't want to get her in any trouble 
Maybe it will just help that I have got it all written down here