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Feeling lost

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HB3141 · 15/05/2015 17:07

Arghhhh. I'm going through what may be a miscarriage. I'm totally distraught.
I'm still bf my 8 month old so my periods only returned two months ago and are irregular. I am actively ttc. Wednesday, after bootcamp class I started having awful cramps almost like early labour pains and very suddenly started to bleed. Fresh and bright red. I just assumed it was my period early only 19 days since my last one and was a bit taken aback by pain.
By that night the bleeding had completely stopped. I was concerned something wasn't right so msgd my friend who said I may be pregnant. I suddenly thought this maybe case as been nauseous and overly tired the last few days. I got a test. It was immediately pregnant. I was joyous. Messaged my friend who suggested I ring Dr to check all ok as had a bad bleed day before. I did this and Dr rang back and simply said I'd most likely lost it and not to test for 3 weeks. I couldn't believe this so got two different tests. Both positive straight away including digital. My head was spinning but husband told me to fear the worse and not do any more tests.
This morning I went to bootcamp again and before I even finished the cramping started although not as severe and started bleeding again. Fresh and bright red. I'm still bleeding now although it's now dark brown and stringy.
I am losing it aren't I?
Why am I sooooo upset when I didn't even know and already have a beautiful 8 month old.
What do I do now?

Hannah

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Yeasayer · 16/05/2015 09:54

Really sorry for what you are experiencing, it's so scary when you don't know what's going on. Do you have an EPU near you? They may be able to scan (depending how far along you think you may be), so you know what may be happening. Your Dr doesn't sound particularly helpful. Flowers

HB3141 · 16/05/2015 16:00

Aww thank you. We have now nearby but it shut till Monday. I doubt they'll do anything though. I just can't stop hoping it's not which makes it worse. I'm still nauseous and boobs are sore. I'm wishful thinking all the time. Xxx

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