Missed miscarriage... Scared

[Meganlilly89]

I posted last week about having an early scan as unsure on dates.. I was expecting to me 8/9 weeks.. I measured at 8weeks 1days (sac 30mm) but no heartbeat. I'm back in tomorrow morning for a 2nd scan, they told me it could be too early to see anything. After research I think it's a missed miscarriage. Today I have had two episodes of spotting, been to hospital and my cervix is still closed and still didn't say I could be miscarrying! Have to wait until tomorrow.. But why am I so scared?! I don't know what to expect and I don't want to do this naturally I'm not strong enough.. I just keep crying.

Hi Megan - have you had any more news on this yet ? Try not to be scared. Wait til you have all the facts.

Mine was a missed miscarriage (mmc) and I didn't opt to do it naturally. I had the ERPC under general anaesthetic .

Have a look on this thread, maybe copy and paste your post and we will help you through whatever happens !...

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/miscarriage/2327423-Headwreck-Hope-Support-for-those-who-are-might-be-experiencing-MMC-MC-early-pregnancy-loss?

Had scan this morning and all confirmed what deep down I already knew. ?? I am starting to miscarry, haven't had much more bleeding yet but getting cramps etc. they want to leave it to happen naturally as they said it seems my body is starting the process. So sad.

Will look at that link thank you xx

I'm sorry you had the loss confirmed, Megan
Have a read through the 'tips for coping' thread as well, it's less scary when you know what to expect.

Megan sending my love, going through it as well this week, its so hard isnt it x