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[SnowWhite26]

Hi again.
Last week I had a miscarriage after 6 weeks and it has weirdly really hit me today.I am so jumbled.I want to try again asap but at the same time it has made me think about finances etc. My husband has a good salary but I dont really as work in childcare.We rent and have a lovely flat and have a happy life living in our means.I have started to today think I should get a better paying job before trying again.My husband thinks we should continue and not worry bout it until it happens.I am also not sure if I could go through another miscarriage.
Sorry for the ramblings x

Hello Snowwhite20,

Really sorry to hear about your recent loss, it can be really hard to cope with and hits you when you least expect it.

I had 2 MC this year, one at 6 weeks then the second at 10. I was so confused after as i knew how much i wanted another baby but was scared to try again incase i MC again. I am now currently 6 weeks pregnant and all seems well.

In regards to finances etc... theres never a rite time to have a baby. If in your heart you really want to try again then do, everything else will fall into place. xx

Congratulations I really hope all goes well :) Yeah I really want a baby its crazy how maternal I feel.
Many thanks for replying :)

I know, it takes over everything sometimes doesnt it. Keep positive and if your ready then go for it. xx