I am 17 years old and i need help on figuring out if it's even possible I am pregnant or if I am just being paranoid. At the end of last month I was messing around with a guy we didn't have sex though (sorry please forgive if its TMI) but he had his "you know what" out and i had yoga pants on put no underwear he was "dry humping" me i guess you could say. He then started to finger me through my pants. I really don't know if you can get pregnant from precum or not. But anyways weeks had passed i felt a little weird and then in the middle of this month i thought i finally had my period, but it didn't feel normal I had really bad cramps in the middle of the lower part of my stomach, I never have cramps on my period. It first was light pink then later it was bright blood red with A LOT of clots then turned really dark red with A LOT more clots and some kinda weird tissue was coming out. The bleeding was super heavy! This went on for 2 or 3 days then stopped. I might have had a miscarriage or just a really really weird period but I'm scared. Its practically been a month now since i messed around. I feel tired but nothing else of the signs of pregnancy. My boobs don't feel sore but kinda feel bigger(idk i might be paranoid). I feel fatter but that's about it. I'm just really worried!!! :( my periods are irregular sometimes come at the end of the month or at the beginning of the next month, sometimes have them 2 times a month and I don't remember when i had my last period.... so you can't really calculate how far along i am if i am pregnant. (i already took 3 pregnancy tests weeks after i messed around with that guy. 2 said negative and the other one was a different brand that was cheap....it looked like the picture below it. It had a negative line in the round window and no line in the little window but i don't know if i did them all wrong or if it was too early to tell...) i just need some help please tell me what you guys think. I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much and please dont judge me....
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No judging here 
It's extremely unlikely you became pregnant from your messing about session with this guy. Your periods sound like your body is pretty unsettled generally. I'd book an appointment with a GP to talk about your menstrual cycle generally, as it's a massive pest being irregular and there may well be something easy and simple that can be prescribed.
Nobody's been rude to you, though? They're just saying that the situation you've described couldn't have got you pregnant -- which is a relief for you to hear, surely?
If you've had a horribly heavy period your doctor can help that not happen again, and you can also discuss contraception methods while you're there if you want to avoid future scares.
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