Following MC at 7wks in Feb (started bleeding spontaneously, fetus only measured 5w4d, MCd naturally 2 days later) I became pregnant again in June. I decided to pay for 8wk private scan this week. So on Tuesday I found out that the embryo only measured 6w5d (should have been 7w6d) and had an extremely low fetal heartrate (about half what it should be). I've been told to expect the worse by both the scan tech and my GP. I am doing HCG blood tests (2nd is tomorrow) and having a followup scan next Friday. But I've read the stats and I know that I'm incredibly likely to MC, at the latest by 12 weeks , and that even if I don't then the baby is likely to have chromosomal or heart defects.
I'm really struggling, I work from home so haven't actually had to take time off work but I'm crying all the time, I don't want to get on my laptop since I can't stop googling low fetal heartrate. I just sleep and read. My morning sickness is still pretty bad and I'm having light cramping almost constantly.
I can't make any decisions until I know next week whether the baby's heart has stopped beating. I don't even really know what the options are, if it's still low. The other MC was difficult as it was the first but it was natural so it all happened so fast. This is totally different.
I feel like I've let my DH down, this is supposed to be our first child, and other than him I'm feeling so alone.
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In limbo - waiting for results on low fetal heartbeat - 2nd pregnancy after MC in Feb
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charlieis30 · 31/07/2014 11:19
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