Thank you for all the support, it's heartening to hear all your success stories. We have started TTC this cycle already but if it doesn't work we will hang off to see Dr. Q.
The frustrating thing is that there is so much conflicting info out there: aspirin prevents MC, aspirin can cause MC etc. my MW wanted to put me on 75mg from next BFP but consultant vetoed it. They've been so lovely but I told the consultant that I'd rather give up now than MC again because I can't make it far enough in to show a viable HB. I know I would get a total bollocking for taking aspirin but if I'm PG this cycle then I'm going to try it. 3x their way hasn't worked so I feel I've nothing to gain by trying that again. It's been horrendous, 5 losses in 2 yrs (3 of them pregnancies) has left me with anxiety attacks. I feel very fragile about trying again.
My mum and maternal GM both have/had rheumatoid arthritis and heart disease (GM died of a stroke) I feel there could be either a clotting or autoimmune issue here. I will contact Dr. Q again but I will make sure Kerri knows this is attempt 3 to contact her. I'm a bit of a weirdo fatalist so I put it down to not being the right time to go.