Two of my very lovely and caring friends are hiding the fact that one of them is pregnant. They went off to have a secret chat about it and I just burned. I know they are being thoughtful but I feel both excluded and hurt that they think I wouldn't be able to handle it and annoyed that they think I wouldn't find out anyway. After a horrific period of ttc ourselves we've stopped and have made peace with it. I've been ok for over a year now but this reaction from my fiends has really upset me. It makes me wonder whether I will be able to be friends with them, or rather whether they are able to be friends with me.