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Just needed a place to moan

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r2d2ismyidealman · 18/06/2014 11:27

Two of my very lovely and caring friends are hiding the fact that one of them is pregnant. They went off to have a secret chat about it and I just burned. I know they are being thoughtful but I feel both excluded and hurt that they think I wouldn't be able to handle it and annoyed that they think I wouldn't find out anyway. After a horrific period of ttc ourselves we've stopped and have made peace with it. I've been ok for over a year now but this reaction from my fiends has really upset me. It makes me wonder whether I will be able to be friends with them, or rather whether they are able to be friends with me.

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Catlover2014 · 18/06/2014 14:55

Hello R2D2,

I'm sure your friends are trying to protect you but I know it's annoying when people do that. It's not as though you aren't going to find out eventually anyway!!

Maybe you could talk to the other friend and explain that you've made peace with your path and you'd like very much to still be involved in theirs. Hopefully the other friend will get word and share her news with your herself.

Good luck :)


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