I've been hanging around here for a couple of days after having an early miscarriage at 4w+5
I feel a bit of a fraud because it was so early but we still feel absolutely devastated that our bean is no longer with us.
Some of the stories here are heartbreaking.....I am so sorry for any of you who have suffered a loss, it's so hard to understand.
It would have been my 3rd child and my dp's 1st. My other dc are 17 and 7.
Yesterday I asked my dp about trying again and he didn't answer so I asked if he thought I should go back on the pill and he shocked me by saying yes
He said he thinks we should try again later next year!!!
I know it's very early for us and we're still coming to terms with our loss but this has upset me so much!
I'm 41 so we really don't have the luxury of putting it off. I know how upset he is at losing our bean.......but I've spoken to the midwife and the doctor and both said there is no reason for us not to try again as soon as we feel we want to to and there is also a good chance of this not happening again.
I think he's scared of going through this again as am I, it's heartbreaking......everything changes doesn't it when you get that bfp......you can't help but makes plans for the future and then it's suddenly taken away
I would really like to hear your thoughts and maybe some positive stories form older ladies who have gone on to have a baby after mc.
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Trying again after mc, how did you feel?
spinningirl10 · 01/11/2013 10:54
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