I had my missed miscarriage 'discovered' at my 16 week scan on 8th December. The baby was more 12 week size so quite possibly died a few weeks previous (?). I went in for an 'induction' and baby was born on 12th December.
They had huge trouble getting rid of the placenta and it came away in bits - (tmi alert) much of it picked out with various tools through my open cervix which was horiffic and so I asked them to stop. I asked for a D&C and they said "one more go - we just have to get this last bit we can see" and then you won't have to have a GA. They thought they had removed all products and I was left to recover over a period of 3 days in hospital as I had lost very large amounts of blood throughout this and was close to a transfusion.
Went home with AntiB's and a stash of iron tablets and felt heaps better for almost a week but then began to feel a bit rubbish. Went to Drs on Christmas Eve as I was bleeding more heavily and had mild pain and felt feverish (little did I know my tepm was sky high) and was sent of for a scan at which they baulked at the amount of stuff still in my womb.
Off to hospital for IV antibiotics this time as they had to clear infection before they could operate since infection was pretty bad and my womb 'boggy' apparently.
Deteriorated rapidly at this point and became delirious with uncontrollable shakes. Blood test confirmed infection had spread to my blood.
Don't remember much after this except going for D&C and feeling a ton better after although weak.
I missed my Christmas with my three young children and baby was born dead on my DP's birthday so very sad memories around this time but this was all 18 months ago. I have resumed very normal periods so I hope that all would be well if I wished to conceive in the future.
This has turned into a bit of a narcissistic ramble, sorry, but my point was that you really will know about it if your situation becomes serious.
Fecer, bleeding, pain and smell are dfinitely what to watch for.
I think you will just 'know' if something is not right.
Truly sorry for your loss.
x