This is my first post on mumsnet but i thought it would be a good place to find out if anyone has been through something similar...
I found out at 11 wks 6 days that i was having an embryonic pregnancy, where theres a sac growing, pregnancy symptoms etc but for whatever reason the egg never develops - the scan pic showed an empty black bean where there would usually be a baby. This was my first pregnancy.
I tried medical management with tablets to bring on a miscarriage but it didn't work - my husband and i had been warned that anembryonic pregnancies can be particularly resistant so weren't totally surprised.
I opted for an mva under local anaesthetic instead - it seemed a less risky option than a d&c under a general. I went through the procedure 2weeks after the original scan, later than hoped because of bank hols/ lack of appointments.
Just before the procedure the Dr performing it explained what would happen but didn't mention anaesthetic, just using gas & air. When i asked (already feet with feet in stirrups) she said they'd 'try it without'. This was totally contrary to everything I 'd been told previously and all the info I'd been given but i was too overwhelmed by everything to question it, and she started the procedure immediately after.
Even with the gas and air it was horrendously painful and traumatic - i didn't feel prepared for it and neither did my husband. He passed out, hit his head and we spent three hours after in casualty. He said seeing me in so much pain and moaning set him off.
I cried non stop from when i got home until 3 in the morning and had nightmares about it when i finally fell asleep. Ive phoned the hospital to find out why i wasn't anaesthetised but have just been passed around the houses.
We want to try again as soon as we can but Im scared it will happen again.
Its only the day after now but i feel so traumatised by it, is it normal to be treated like that, and for it to be so painful? Has anyone else experienced an MVA without anaesthetic?