Hello reeree24, how are things now? I am very sorry all this has happened, it’s awful isn’t it.
I had a incomplete mc, at 12weeks, around 28 Aug 19, (last month) was offered surgery in hospital but I’m into all things natural / Mother Nature so I discharged myself to managed it at home.
Each scan at this point, showed the babies body with no heart beat, and it was stuck not coming out. After a few days in the ward, the doctors said I had two weeks to release naturally at home, if it didn’t happen I’d have to have surgery. Next day I booked an reflexologist who was an Angel I am sure, to come to my home, and help me, I was heartbroken too. The reflexology definitely did it for me, over next few days I expelled the little body, and sac and everything, not in one go though, over 5 days or so. I wasn’t prepared for how traumatic this would then be, as I thought the worst of it was the initial horror. It really shows how strong we are to endure what we do, and still go on.
Anyway, i have bleed heavily everyday since then, so this will be 4 weeks, of bleeding every day, sometimes it’s fresh or dark coloured, like a continuous slow dripping tap. Just on. And now my period has started today too. And it’s very heavy clotted and sore.
What has helped me is, spatone, taking folic acid, eating lots of fruit veg, whole foods, plus herbal support, I went to a herbalist who gave me yarrow, mugwort and rose.
So even though I am still bleeding, the shock has dissipated, and the raw feeling of not wanting to exist, my shame has softened, and nightmares has stopped. Anxiety has crept up a bit, so I restarted meditating and gentle yoga, I’m sleeping ok again and getting energy back.
I’m saying all this too incase someone else needs help on what to do when your still bleeding, as there is not that much out there.
I am thankful for this thread. And I hope you are doing a little better now. Well as best as you can be.
Lots of well wishes and love. And too anyone else reading this who may be experiencing the same thing; much love to you and your healing process.
We beautiful woman are so strong it is in our nature, our birth right, and when we share it : it makes us get through better : I’m so grateful to know others are out there too Xxx