Butterfly, i'm so shocked the nurse was so rude to you..it is bad enough having to be back in the antenatal department without such insensitivity from someone who should know better.
I have Hughes (Antiphospolipid Syndrome), and have had 3 MC. My next PG will involve Heparin, Aspirin and assorted other bits and pieces.
I would very much echo what Far says about st Mary's- in my experience, the difference in understanding and capability between some regional hospitals (like the one I was at for my first loss) and the big london teaching hopstials is frighteningly large.
My first baby died at 20 weeks, and the PM indicated it had died from ischemia, so most likely to be a clotting disorder, but the hosptial lost the placenta so it couldn't be confirmed. They did clotting tests and they all came back clear, was told it was one of those things.
I then lost my second baby, after which i demanded to be referred to st thomas's in london (they have a big clotting disorder interest there as they discovered Hughes syndrom, which i supsected from google I had!)
They redid the tests that the other hosptial did, but with the right protocols, no cuff, quickly testing etc- and DO have hughes sydrome after all. They immediately presecribed me clexane but i was 8 weeks PG with my third baby. At 11 weeks they found that the baby died between 7+5 (when it had been fine on a scan) and 8 weeks, so the clexane was started too late to save the baby.
It makes me so cross to think that my last 2 MC could have been avoided if my original hosptial knew what they were doing.
If you have any doubts about where you are being treated or the test come back as inconclusive, please, please get a second opinion. As Far says, st marys rmc are amazing, as are st thomas' for blood clotting issues.
(If you wanted to come down to london for testing, i have a slightly uncomfortable double sofa bed in the living room you would be very welcome to use at any time)