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Saying Goodbye services

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DaisyMaisyJessicaEmily · 13/05/2012 00:32

apps.facebook.com/theguardian/lifeandstyle/2012/may/12/miscarriage-saying-goodbye-services?fb_source=feed_news&fb_action_types=news.reads

Bloody brilliant idea

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Homebird8 · 13/05/2012 04:44

I so wish I was in the UK to attend a service. Well done Zoe and Andy, parents of seven!

Jemimapuddleduk · 13/05/2012 08:46

Such a good idea and i would love to attend one of these. I am gutted there isn't one in the northwest though. Miscarriage happens everywhere but these seem a tad southern centric. (I may be being v grumpy as still in process of third heartbreaking mc). X

Homebird8 · 13/05/2012 08:54

So sorry to hear about your losses Jemima. Our local hospital had annual services in their chapel which I found helpful. Perhaps more churches or cathedrals will join in for all those of us not in easy reach of the ones already planned.

DaisyMaisyJessicaEmily · 13/05/2012 10:12

This is the first year so I reckon next few years it will really take off.

Homebird, Jemima - worth checking with your hospitals chapels as they sometimes do similar services?

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birdofthenorth · 13/05/2012 18:22

Jemima, Homebird- I'm in the NW too and gutted as in yesterday's Guardian it said there would be one in Manchester, but on the Saying Goodbye website there's no sign of it. Maybe we could ask them to reconsider us?

Jemimapuddleduk · 13/05/2012 18:34

birdofthenorth yes I read that too and was very disappointed when I went onto the website afterwards. York is closest one to Manchester and its miles away! Do you have details of how to get in touch? I do think we should ask if they would reconsider.

birdofthenorth · 13/05/2012 18:37

Website says their email address is [email protected] ...shall we?

bronze · 13/05/2012 18:40

Nothing out my way too.
Would be something I would have liked to have done. Especially as my last was a loss of a twin like theirs but mine is really unacknowledged, probably because I was still pregnant.

Homebird8 · 14/05/2012 10:09

I lost twins but only one acknowledged like you Bronze. There were several weeks between the two losses. Tough times. Sending love.

Birdofthenorth, not in NW but NZ now. 12,000 miles doesn't make it any easier. My baby's grave is a long way away.

bronze · 14/05/2012 12:32

I'm sorry homebird.
I am blessed though as dd did survive and is lovely

doormat · 14/05/2012 12:34

what a lovely idea, when i had a mc dh and i did our own

Jemimapuddleduk · 14/05/2012 17:35

birdofthenorth, I am going to email now! X

Homebird8 · 15/05/2012 08:54

Thank you Bronze. Lost my twins but since had two beautiful DS's. Our losses were 11 years ago now but some days it still feels like yesterday. Glad your little girl made it.

Jemimapuddleduk · 15/05/2012 09:02

Hello to the Northerners,
I have found out that there is a service at Manchester Cathedral in March 2013. There are details on the cathedral website.
x

gneville2 · 10/09/2015 10:19

These services still run UK wide and full details can be found at www.sayinggoodbye.org

America, France and Canada next year too!

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