We're both attending a party later. What is the best way to approach this? I don't want to avoid her as that may upset her but if she's planning on avoiding me I don't want to foist myself upon her. I don't want to rub anything in her face in the fact but chances are people will ask me about the baby and I am very obviously pregnant (although going to try and cover up). I want to be supportive but I don't know how to talk to her without seeming to either ignore what's happened or bringing up something that's hugely painful.
We were never hugely close but our group is. I do wonder what's been said too as one of my friends said she didn't 'like the way she's been treating me'. I tried to delve a little deeper but didn't get far. It seemed to be based on friend who has had miscarriages avoiding any events I'll be at, etc and the mutual friend (who has been in a very similar position) thinking this was not on. I can understand it. I don't know how I would be in the same position. I just want to not make things worse!