Hi all. I've posted on here a couple of times this year as we started ttc at Christmas and I had a chemical pregnancy/very early loss in both January and February (first at about 5 weeks, second only 4+2 or so). I felt ill quickly in both cases, and better almost immediately when the bleeding started, so I think I would have realised what was going on even without the tests (which were faint but positive in both cases).
We've recently moved house and I have a new GP who seems really good. I mentioned this to her and, much to my surprise, she has taken it very seriously and is trying to refer me to a recurrent miscarriage unit even though I've only had two losses (although actually I think it probably happened once before as well, years ago, when I wasn't ttc). This is because I have a history of juvenile and then adult rheumatoid arthritis (from when I was 9). It is now much better than it was, really just my wrists that cause problems, but in the past I was quite disabled by it. She says this history of autoimmune inflammatory disease means I am more than averagely likely to have an autoimmune factor that might be preventing conceptions implanting properly, and if so this may be treatable. She has also sent me to have a whole raft of blood tests which were done earlier this week.
I'm really impressed as I expected to be told it was just 'one of those things' but I'm also a bit worried. On the positive side, she said it was fine to keep trying, and also that it was a good sign that we are obviously fertile (conceiving twice in our first two months trying).
Just wondering if anyone has any relevant experience here? Especially if you also have a link with inflammatory disease of some sort; but also in general I'd like to know a bit more about what it's like to be referred to one of these units. I had to spend a lot of time seeing doctors as a child/young adult and to be honest I really hate hospitals and they make me very anxious so I want to have some sense of what's involved. The doctor said if they won't accept the referral now she will re-refer me immediately if it happens again.
Sorry for long post.