long story, went for 12 week scan over a week ago and was told fetus had either stopped developing at 6-7 weeks or i had dates wrong, was told to wait and see, rescan in 10 days, started bleeding, 4 days of old brown blood, then 2 days of red and large clots with cramps and lower pelvic pain,then bleeding stopped i thought i had miscarried. went for a re scan on day 7 and was told fetus was developing and hadnt miscarried, told to rest and be hopeful that development would continue and hb would be found at next scan 1 week later. The next day bleeding started and was so bad, v large clots, so i went to A and E, they gave me cocodamol and told me to go home, bleeding would be like a heavy period for a day or 2, and to keep scan appointment in case needed a d and c. I went home and suddenly had contractions and passed a very large solid clot, bigger than my fist. since then pains are awful (cocodamol not working) and bleeding still heavy. I think i am just worried that there will still be more to come (clots,pain) , will i need d and c?, does it sound like a 7 week miscarriage or a 13 week one? was the large clot a placenta? I feel so sad at losing this baby but also feel as if the whole experience was so traumatic, i dont know how women cope with recurrent miscarriage, they are so brave. I really want to be pregnant again but dont know if im strong enough to deal with miscarriage again!