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Two miscarraiges, so many questions.

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bunny2 · 19/10/2003 11:07

I had a second mc 3 weeks ago but didnt find out till a 12 week scan on Monday when I was told there was no heartbeat and the foetus was only 9.4. This happened 2 years ago, the dates and timing are almost identical so I am convinced there is something that is happening during the pregnancy to cause these miscarriages. I have so far been fobbed off with statistics and rules - we will only investigate after 3, lots of pregnancies end in mc etc but I am not satisfied with these answers. Surely the fact that both were so identical indicates some sort of problem that I have. I've done lots of reading and, possibly wrongly, can surmise that most miscarraiges caused by chromosonal problems happen earlier, around 6 wks. Both my babies have got to 9 or 10 weeks and then died. I have to know why. I now feel I have to get pg and go through a third miscarriage before I get any help and I just dont know if I am emotionally strong enough to do so.

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bunny2 · 21/10/2003 21:24

Quacks, that's a beautiful quote. Thank you. I just saw my mail to you still in the outbox so I have sent it from dh's address. Hope you are ok, I have had a good day and feel surprisingly good (how long for though? that's the question)

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quackers · 22/10/2003 09:21

Hi Bunny, replied to your mail! Clomid advice appreciatedif you have a minute on the ttc!! Hope today goes ok for youxxxxxxxx

bunny2 · 22/10/2003 22:42

Today was ok till I went to playgroup and was met by such a sympathetic bunch of mums that I got upset again. Still, my Mum took me clothes shopping this afternoon to cheer me up, retail therapy always works for me.

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