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Help! I'm 42, 7weeks pregnant and bleeding

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twinkenose · 30/07/2011 09:40

Hi this is my first time at using this! I have just recently miscarried I am now pregnant again, but bleeding now for 3days. I have a scan on Monday, but really worried I have lost this one too. Most symptons have gone(but I didn't really have many in the first place!)as of yet I do not have any cramps....just bleeding. I just wondered if anyone else out there has gone through this??
I have had 2previous successful pregnancies resulting into 2 healthy kids, but that was in my 20's! so it feels all new again!
Thanks x

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panashe · 08/08/2011 10:55

Wow montysma1 that is so great to hear. Thanks Smile Smile

Pamelaaaa · 08/08/2011 11:49

Hi ladies - much to my alarm Shock I started getting cramps on sat night - then started spotting yesterday - haven't slept too well as cramping started again so I fear that I am having another MC - waiting for my EPU to ring me back, midwife says they'll prob want to scan me - not alot they can do I guess, still bleeding a little when I go to the loo (sorry if TMI). Sadly DP working abroad this week and i'd only told my closest mate so feeling a bit sad and lonely today. Dam my 41 years..... :(

Mama5isalive · 08/08/2011 17:15

ohhhhh Pamelaa im so very sorry that you are going through this and your DP is not around to support you through this ( sending you my cyber hand and shoulder to hold your hand through this and for you t cry on)
I pray that you will soon get through the pain and you can then start your healing process! i dont believe giving up for there is always Hope! stay encouraged and look at the wonders around and draw joy from it all. your blessing will come and the joy of holding a baby in your arms can be yours.
take time to heal and when its your time again it will happen, not just for you but all of you, age is something we use sometimes to stop us doing something but our body will stop releasing eggs when its time to stop right!!!!
thoughts and prayers out to you all xxxxx

butterybiscuitbass · 08/08/2011 21:28

Panashe This is good news, I'm hoping for the best for you. Hope you're still OK xx

My heart goes out to you Pamelaaaa , all the best for this one.

I'm signing off from this thread for the while girls- one week on from the mc I feel a lot better and am looking to the future- please cross your fingers for me, for next time and love to you all. Thanks for the support, it has meant loads to me. xx

Pamelaaaa · 09/08/2011 17:20

Thank you Mama5 and butterybiscuit for your kind thoughts/words - much appreciated.
I have been to EPU today - scan confirmed that MC has happened and tbh I feel absolutely fine, no pain now just bleeding but nothing bad now. DP has been wonderful on the end of the phone - bless him, i'm taking a couple of days off work and giving myself some time to chill.
So fingers crossed for all you lovely ladies - what's meant to be will be... I'm feeling very positive - upward and onward.... take care all and thanks for all the support xx

Mama5isalive · 10/08/2011 22:19

Pamelaa - Im so sorry! but glad you are not in pain!!!!!! take out time for you and your DP, please share how your feelings ( dont bottle them up)
I know you've heard it all before but " time is a healer" and the sadness and sorrow never goes (so ive been told) but you can get to the days when you dont cry when talking about it!( i have)
I pray that whatever you decide to do you will find true happiness( ttc or not)
all the best to you and yours - xx

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