I have logged on for the first time having only just hooked up to the internet.
I feel for everyone of you who have lost a baby. It is devastating and an unimaginable experience to go through.
Our baby had died at six weeks but I felt fully pregnant and did not start bleeding untill ten weeks.
After a scan with apalling,uncaring staff I was advised to go home and deal with it alone. They did not tell me what would happen or how painful it would be. I returned a week later, was rescanned to check everything and the only comment from the nurse was , yes its all gone, probably looked a bit like liver.
Please don't underestimate how you may feel, take time off work, let people look after you and grieve.
Also be prepared to for sadness to hit you when you least expect. Especially when the due date is nearing.
Our baby was due in September and I feel a little scared about how upset I may be during that week.
However just reading other peoples experiences and writing about my own has been very helpful.
Thank you for sharing such personal stories. Honeyjam