Hi all
Am hoping someone will tell me what I want to hear..!
Have had 4 early MCs (7 wks, 6 wks, 7 wks and 5 wks). Between these (3rd pg) had a successful pregnancy and DS is now 3. :)
Am now PG again and have made it to the magic 12 week mark - had scan a week ago and baby was wriggling around happily and measuring 12+6. So I should be 14 wks now. They didn't do a NT as they don't offer that on the NHS in my area but according to the sonographer it all looked good. (She wasn't that nice though...she just said "it all appears fine at this stage although of course problems may still occur")
Now we get to my ridiculousness...
The NHS has told me that since I've never had 3 MCs in a row, it's just bad luck and I have never been at greater risk of another MC. I've never had any of the tests. I obviously have found it hard to believe this.
BUT my question is - are early MCs different from late MCs? I.e. now I've got to 12 weeks, do you think I can be more optimistic - or does the fact that I've had 4 MCs before (albeit early ones) mean that I'm at greater risk this time too? I suppose what I really mean is...am I now "normal" with the same reasons to worry/relax as other women - or should I still consider myself marked because of my previous experiences?
I am not sure if this makes sense. Have worked myself into a bit of a state, to be honest. Doesn't take long for the reassurance from good scan news to wear off...!
Thanks