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Feeling Miserable

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pudding25 · 17/04/2011 20:22

I had a miscarriage at the end of Aug at 9 weeks and another miscarriage last week at almost 12 weeks. This week has been very up and down. I am very lucky to have a gorgeous DD who is almost 3 who cheers me up. I am feeling really miserable tonight. We spent the afternoon with my best friend who has a little baby (her first and am delighted for her as she had lots of probs conceiving). Seeing my DD playing so beautifully with the baby made me realise how much I want a sibling for DD but am too scared to try again as the thought of having another miscarriage, possibly even later, fills me with horror.

Also, another very close friend has just had her baby today. Her DD and my DD are very close. My due date for miscarriage number 1 would have been a couple of weeks ago so we were due to have our 2nd babies together. That coupled with last week's miscarriage is just making me so sad although I am so happy for her.

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NoWittyName · 17/04/2011 22:11

Sending you a massive hug. Nothing I can say would make anything better, so I'm just sending love. xx

idliketobebythesea · 18/04/2011 08:24

that is hard pudding, even though you wouldn't wish problems on anyone else you can feel like you are the only one not able to have another child. I had my nct group for an easter egg hunt yesterday. It was really good fun and my 2yr D enjoyed it but everyone either has or is expecting number 2, and my best friend who has also had several mc since birth of her D is pregnant now too. I have everything crossed for her as it is so precious - i had my 3rd MC last week and we would of been 2 weeks apart.
I feel miserable too and wish i could get it off my mind but has really knocked my confidence in everything and seems to haunt me. have been through it before so i know it will get better but keep wondering if it is something subconcious stopping me and how long i can keep obsessing...

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