I started mc-ing ast week at 5+6 and still continue to bleed,have scan on weds, but of the few i did tell i was even pregnant (around 3 people) 2 have told me that everything will be ok on wednesday, and that i still look pregnant (boobs massive etc!), Ive tried to tell them i know its all over this time and trying to stay a little positive about it, but everyone is getting me down telling me itsok, theyre just not listening and im starting to believe them when really i know my own body best.
My partner was a little insensitive at first, thursday when i told him he said well we wernt trying anyway, today he was off work anyway and i caught him crying his heart out, he finally came out with it and said hes been terrified of upsetting me.all weekend ive been feeling like crap and hes been trying to cheer me up, i feel so guilty now that i thought he didnt care so have been keeping myself to myself and ignoring him a bit cos it upsets me to talk to him about it, then after this i find out hes bottled it all up but he doesnt believe me either and just says everything will be ok, did people believe you when you first told them or is this the normal response to try to deny it and make everything ok? xx