I think having a miscarriage

[Vix1980]

It started last night with just enough blodd when i wiped i put on a panty liner and has a little cramping but ended up going to bed early, it was the 1st night ive slept right through, im only 5 1/2 weeks but got up this morning to a little more blood and the pain had got worse, just come back from the hospital where they examined me internally and felt my stomach etc but couldnt do anything else or tell me anymore, im booked in for a scan next wednesday but i think i already know it will be a waste of time ad the bleeding is getting heavier although not as much as a period (sorry for tmi!) Im extremely gutted, my boyfriends reaction was "well we wernt trying anyway" which is not the point, he was over themoon when i told him so think this may just be the 1st thing that came into his head but hasnt helped me.

its my birthday on sunday when everyone was coming round and i was planning on telling my mum and dad and now i just have to sit there with everyone when all i want to do is be on my own and run off someone alone xx dont know why im writing this just thought it may make me feel better to get it out

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I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this . I've just had a miscarriage myself (at 7 weeks) so know how gutting it is.

Don't have much to saw but didn't want your post to go unanswered. I'd suggest you tell your mum or dad, as I've appreciated the support I've had from my own mum. I had already told her I was pregnant, but have appreciated having our loss acknowledged.

Been through exactly the same thing...3 times...2 miscarriages and an ectopic...and a very crap and selfish boyfriend.....you will get through this..just do what u want to do for ur birthday...my family were great when i had the 3 miscarriages and im sure your mam and dad will be the same...

So Sorry your going though all this on your own....but the one thing i did learn from my 3 miscarriages was that im stronger than i thought i was..

So sorry you're going through this. I'll echo what fran28 said and say you're probably stronger than you think and you WILL get through this. You're mum and dad are probably going to be a big help so still tell them so they can support you.

Again, so sorry for you loss and major hugs your way xxx

Thanks for all your messages, i didnt even get to tell them that i was pregnant so think this would be an even bigger shock for them, just still feel so crap about it and cant help wondering what i did,something i ate or didnt eat etc, i dont think anyone should have to go through this! thanks again for listening xx

I thought I was miscarrying - but when I went for a scan ( I was 9 weeks) to my horror surprise it was twins and apparently bleeding is quite normal.

Fingers crossed for you OP.

I just dont know how i have got through the weekend to be honest, i was clinging onto hope thinking everyone has a bleed now and then, its totaly normal but ive woken up today with no pregnancy symptoms whatsoever, all i had was sore boobs, bloating and gas and even they have deserted me, i cant wait till wednesday is over just to have it confirmed and move on cos in my heart i know the answer anyway xx