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Twin miscarriage

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Dipper105 · 22/02/2011 19:02

Hello, I was told at an early 6 wk scan (due to some slight spotting) that I was expecting twins and both were in separate sacs with heartbeats, We felt elated as we were first time parents.
Yesterday at my 12 week scan I had "mixed news" I was told I'd had a missed miscarriage with one twin at about 8wks 5day, the other twin was doing great with all measurements being fine and a strong heartbeat.
It was the strangest feeling ever as I was over the moon to see my little miracle on the screen, but she then asked if I'd like to see the twin that hadn't made it? To which I replied Yes, this was very upsetting but I needed to see it.
My worry now is I was then given an appointment for a 20wk scan! 2 months of not knowing if the other twin had absorbed:(
So I put my foot down for a 16wk scan, am I getting the right support?
My fear is now purely with my survivng twin.

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Chloe55 · 23/02/2011 15:20

I should imagine that your feelings are a little bit all over the place at the moment. I am very pleased for you that one of your babies is thriving but allow yourself to grieve for the other, you have still unfortunately lost Sad

I think you do right in pushing for a 16week scan, 8 weeks seems such a long way to go wondering whats happening. They should also be offering you some sort of counselling, the same as with any MC.

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