I had two miscarriages last year (couldn't wait for 2010 to be over). One was at 21 weeks and the other was at 11 weeks. I thought I was plodding along alright this time, but then a few days ago the chaplain called to say my second baby was finally being cremated. It happened this morning and now all the pain is back.
I'm scared but also desperate to be pregnant again. I can't believe I am willing to go through all of it again but I want to be a mum more than anything in the world. And I know my husbands need to be a dad is overwhelming too.
Anyway, I've always had cycles that alternate from 28-29 days to 34-36 days the next cycle (I've been tracking them since 2008 and the pattern fits). Ever since my second miscarriage my cycles have been very long and with a lot of strong stretching pains around ovulation. I've also had mid cycle spotting which I never had before. I use a clearblue fertility monitor and am currently on day 10 of high with no ovulation detected although it felt like it was happening a week ago. It feels like I'm never going to get pregnant again.
Do you think my cycles will always be like this now or am I rushing my body to get back to how it was?
ps I've had all the tests they'll give (before three miscarriages) and they've all come back as 'no action required'.
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unusual cycles after miscarriage
aMuminwaiting · 11/02/2011 09:49
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