Miscarriage support, for those of you who are not ready to start trying again but need somewhere to share your feelings!!

[Diddle]

I have read a lot of miscarriage threads over the last 9 months, and wondered what there was for the people who aren't ready to try again yet, but aren't actively losing right now. I think it would be great if there was somewhere for us to share our feelings and thoughts on our experiences and make friends with people who have has similar experiences, wihtout having to start a whole new thread for it. So here it is!

I lost my first baby 9 months ago and i can remember it like it was yesterday i was wondering if the people out there who have not had such a recent miscarriage could tell me if i will always feel like this, if it will ever leave the back of my mind and just visit occassionally.

Diddle

I lost my little boy last September and I had a m/c at 10 weeks this August, so all is realtively fresh in my mind. It does get easier as time goes on. You don't think about it every minute of the day and every day of the week the way you do just after you loss, but you never forget. Having a loving DH and close family have certainly helped me cope. We visit Adams grave each Sunday after Church and I say goodnight to both my babies each night before I go to sleep. It keeps their memory alive. Sorry I didn't really answer your question, just waffled on about myself.

waffle away wendy i don't mind its nice to hear someone elses way of remembering, thats lovely that you do that, and i hope it will get easier for me too

Diddle

I lost mine just over a year ago and I still remember it like yesterday but luckily I can finally remember it without crying. I spose in answer no, you cant get forget it but you will live with it.

HTH