5th miscarriage may be ????

[emma31177]

feeling very lonly scared upset why is this happening again, i am a mum of two ive got one 14 year old and had been trying for 10 years to have another one had two miscarriages then got preg and had little girl in 2009, the need to have another child ive never felt like it before but i needed to have another one so we tryed again this year and have had 2 more miscarriages then fell preg again an now am 6 weeks preg had early scan on monday see heart beat see my little bean on the screen the feeling was great got home started have brown discharge not much wasnt worried had this before with my daughter but then tonight started haveing red bleeding with little bit of dark red blood in. is this the start of my 5th miscarriage they have all started different ?? i dont no what to do the thought of losing another i cant go through it again is there any hope that it be ok ???
sorry to go on just havnt told anyone so have no one to talk to

i have had 2 miscarriages both vvery different indeed, im pregnant now and very scared of having a third miscarriage. i know exactly how you feel...the desperation for a baby. just a lil note tho my sister and previous boss both had very heavy dark bleeding during thier first trimester (my sister has history of miscarriages) now they both have beautiful babies, my boss had to have opperation to stop her bleeding and my sister had infections so there are more than one reason for bleeding. contact your doctor and he/she will arange for you to have another scan to check baby is ok. wish you the best chick and fingers crossed the bleeding is nothing major xxx

hi thanks for the message its nice to no there someone else out there thats been or going through the same things even though i would hate anyone to feel the way i do right now and go through this but i no it happening,i always thought once you see the heart beat its got a good chance of being ok,i dont no if to go back to the ealry pregnancy unit 2morrow or wait a few days i dont no if am ready to hear bad news but i no there always hope i thank god every day for my two babies i just hope for one more time will tell, i wish u luck with you pregnancy am sure everything will go great for you xx thanks again

it no problem at all. an like you i thought my baby would be ok after i saw its little heart flicker on the screen but sadly i lost 3 days later (11 weeks) i had a scan done when i started bleeding but because it was boxingday there was no experienced doctors about that could say for sure if i had lost the baby or not. i think u should get checked sooner rather than later tho because you dont want to prolong the miscarriage if you are miscarrying and if you are miscarrying you'll know for sure and your able to take stronger pain relief. just try to remember tho that not all bleeding leads to a micarriage and if checked there is a chance that baby is ok.

hope you all the best no matter what happens xx

I'm like you, desperately wanting a third baby, but I've just gone through miscarriage number 5- 4 before my 2 babies and now this one. We have got to keep hopeful- I am having a very low day, but I have not lost my faith that I can and will have another one. It's just that the route there is very hard sometimes. Please keep your chin up. Reading about other people who've had similar experiences to me has been very comforting- we can do it together!!

am sorry to hear u gone through miscarriages to its so hard to deal with them but the ver strong need for another child i just had to keep trying and trying i have 14 years between my two and really wanted another one now so my little girl has someone to grow up with as her brother aint got no time for no one teenagers !! went for a scan today and the baby still got a good heart beat but there is blood inside that will come out ive not heard of this before i just wish i could sleep the next 8 months and wake up with a baby and not go through this stress day to day... but i have to have some hope that everything gonna to be ok this time
i wish u luck i no its hard but if u really want another one keep on trying x