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Acutely sore vulva

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omega4ever · 17/08/2026 13:52

May be a dumb question but here goes...

Can i use somevof my oestrogel gel ln my sore vulva??

Im on continuous hrt 10 yrs . Vaginal atrophy and irritation / soreness becoming more of a problem last 12 months. Im already using vagifem tablet every other day and feel its stopped working.

Tried yes yes vaginal moisturiser... bit of relief.

I was on my bike at weeken and its flaired up terrily. Using simple emolients atm

Have put in an e consult to Gp to request script for vagibal oestrogen cream but it may take 5 days for a reply!!!

Can i just dab a bit of normal oestrogen gel down there meanwhile??

Thanks

OP posts:
Partingofthewaves · 03/09/2026 08:42

Stelladid · 03/09/2026 01:15

The cream was added in together with my Vagifem pessaries by a Gynaecologist. My GP never mentioned the two together. I don’t think the combination features in the nhs protocols, but Gynaecologists have more specialised experience and treat based on that. Apparently, there are no issues using them together.

Thank you for that. I am hoping the dermatologist will help with all this as well.

FergoMcFergFace · 19/09/2026 08:41

omega4ever · 02/09/2026 23:43

@FergoMcFergFace i used the Yes VM too OTC in the months preceeding this but it did get very nippy and wasnt helping as much as earlier. I really recommend the oestrogen cream... its a very low dose apparently. Please think about trying it.

You have my full sympathy and hope you feel more comfortable soon.

I've taken the plunge, OP, and started last night! Did you have any stinging or burning for the first few days? I have a lot of redness already so trying to guage what's normal.

Stelladid · 19/09/2026 13:23

FergoMcFergFace · 19/09/2026 08:41

I've taken the plunge, OP, and started last night! Did you have any stinging or burning for the first few days? I have a lot of redness already so trying to guage what's normal.

Anything can sting and burn, including my oestrogen cream when the area is very sore. I’m impressed that some women here notice a big difference straight away. It’s taken 4 weeks for things to gradually improve to the stage where it isn’t painful anymore. I still get some itchiness and moderate discomfort sometimes. Hopefully, that will go soon.

omega4ever · 19/09/2026 13:25

It took a few days to feel more comfortable...i used daily for probably the first month.... now every other day.

Hope it helps. I think when you are uncomfortable down there it affects everything, sleep, exercise, mood... its really awful.

OP posts:
FergoMcFergFace · 19/09/2026 17:55

Stelladid · 19/09/2026 13:23

Anything can sting and burn, including my oestrogen cream when the area is very sore. I’m impressed that some women here notice a big difference straight away. It’s taken 4 weeks for things to gradually improve to the stage where it isn’t painful anymore. I still get some itchiness and moderate discomfort sometimes. Hopefully, that will go soon.

Glad you're making progress, even if it's slowly. Thanks for replying.

FergoMcFergFace · 19/09/2026 17:59

omega4ever · 19/09/2026 13:25

It took a few days to feel more comfortable...i used daily for probably the first month.... now every other day.

Hope it helps. I think when you are uncomfortable down there it affects everything, sleep, exercise, mood... its really awful.

Absolutely. I can't even walk as quickly as I usually do.

My doctor advised me just to do twice a week as I'm so sore - and I'd reacted to the Blissel gel. I might try more frequent doses if things seem ok over the next week or two. Thanks for replying.

RosaNovella · 19/09/2026 18:17

There is another thread running about this with lots of great advice

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/menopause/5574215-please-share-positive-experiences-of-treatment-for-vaginal-atrophy-symptoms?page=9&reply=154844727

If you suddenly become sore it might be an issue with the vaginal microbiome-Bacterial, Anaerobic Vaginitis or overgrowth of good bacteria

Antibiotics/ harsh bath products/ ill health and poor diet/ low oestrogen can knock it out

GP should do a swab and check your Vaginal microbiome and prescribe appropriate topical antibiotics if nreded to knock out the baddies
If you lack oestrogen it disrupts your VM
If your VM is out of kilter and ph disrupted then the good vaginal bacteria cant process oestrogen properly into the tissues

I found this all out through extensive research
Gps generally clueless!
Vaginal probiotics/ lots of fruit veg/ vaginal oestrogen/ cream / ph pessaries( can buy)
Can take ages to sort it out

FergoMcFergFace · 19/09/2026 18:42

I started that thread, @RosaNovella ! It has been really useful.

It's all such a massive vicious cycle, isn't it? I will look into vaginal probiotics. My GP did take swab - just waiting for results.

trainedopossum · 19/09/2026 19:46

If no joy with the GP, GUM might be able to help, that’s how I was diagnosed with lichen planus.

RosaNovella · 19/09/2026 20:30

FergoMcFergFace · 19/09/2026 18:42

I started that thread, @RosaNovella ! It has been really useful.

It's all such a massive vicious cycle, isn't it? I will look into vaginal probiotics. My GP did take swab - just waiting for results.

Edited

Oh Hi ! 👋
I didnt clock your name! @FergoMcFergFace
Clearly this is extremely common !

Additup · 20/09/2026 00:10

FergoMcFergFace · 19/09/2026 18:42

I started that thread, @RosaNovella ! It has been really useful.

It's all such a massive vicious cycle, isn't it? I will look into vaginal probiotics. My GP did take swab - just waiting for results.

Edited

I can recommend Optibac for Women. I used them for thrush ages ago expecting not much but they worked really well.

FergoMcFergFace · 20/09/2026 09:11

Additup · 20/09/2026 00:10

I can recommend Optibac for Women. I used them for thrush ages ago expecting not much but they worked really well.

Thank you, @Additup. I'll look out for that.

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