I’m 53. After suffering from awfully heavy periods for decades I decided to opt for a uterine ablation in 2022, I was 49. I had been in perimenopause since around the age of 45.
Having the ablation proved to be a huge mistake as I ended up swapping very heavy periods for very painful ones (In retrospect I should have gone for a Mirena but turned it down due to negative online reviews). A year after the ablation I pushed for a pelvic mri and it noted endometriosis and diffuse adenomyosis. I was transferred over to an endo specialist gynae who said I should never have been a candidate for an ablation as a previous ultrasound just a year before the ablation did show a small area of adenomyosis - my regular gynae failed to mention this.
So I have limped along with very very painful periods each month since the ablation and not sure what to do as I had lost faith in the hospital tbh but the pain was getting so bad that I opted to go on a waiting list last summer for a hysterectomy, my pre op has just come up for the end of this month.
I am now having second thoughts for a couple of reasons, the firstly I am genuinely terrified of surgery, especially as I put so much faith in my previous gynae, asked him endless questions about the ablation which he even laughed about turning to his nurse and saying “Ah, this is the lady who asks sooo many questions lol!”. Laugh he did but the ablation did go wrong for me and I can’t guarantee the hysterectomy won’t too.
Also, the pain has now stopped. Over the last few months I appear not to be having much of a cycle and therefore no ‘periods’ (I say that because post ablation there was no bleeding but I still had a regular cycle). At 53 I think I am on the way to my menopause and eventually post menopause journey. I am loathe to go through such a big surgery when the only real reason was due to the pain which, hopefully has abated.
So I paid this week for a private MRI scan which has detected no endometriosis. The report stated bulky uterus with mild adenomyosis, no infiltrative plaques and no invasive organ disease. Also no avert features of malignancy. I am hoping my out of whack peri hormones are now settling and, hopefully also settling the adeno and endo.
I am also a very very anxious person and have been under a lot of stress over the last few years and major surgery will push my anxiety over the edge, I have been unwell thinking about it all since my pre-op appointment came through.
I have sent the images and report over to my gynae and hope to hear from him this week but I know that I genuinely can’t go through such a big surgery right now unless it’s essential and tbh, I don’t want to if I am no longer experiencing the previous awful pain, that was the only reason I had decided upon getting everything out.
BUT I am also an over thinker and worried that I may regret it.
Is there anyone on here who is now post menopausal with adenomyosis and managing it well without surgery and if so how do you do it?