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New to HRT and think progesterone sensitive. What to do?

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Reginaphalangeeeee · 18/03/2026 22:32

Hi all.
New to HRT aged 46. I still have regular periods and began Oestrogel (2 pumps a day) with local vaginal cream too and cyclical vaginal 200mg progrsteronefron day 12. Well I am 3 days into the prograterone and after feeling euphoric with the estrogen (cured my brain fog and joint pain and generally lifted my low mood), the progesterone hit hard. Pelvic cramp initially& bloat/constipation. Now feeling quiet low mood/sad/can't be bothered and also have sore boobswith return of joint pain. I have put on 2 kg and sure retaining water.

Do I just see it through and hope For the best?
I really don't want the Merina coil but understand that is the solution for some.
I think another option is to take it continuous, but would Injust stay miserable and forget happiness as the norm?

If I hadnt have felt so bloddy great with the estrogen gel for the first 2 weeks, I would be saying right now that the progesterone symptoms are as bad as PMT and maybe it's not worth it?

Will it settle and get better?

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JinglingSpringbells · 19/03/2026 16:08

RobinEllacotStrike · 19/03/2026 14:07

Hi @Reginaphalangeeeee
I am progesterone intolerant and sadly have had to come off HRT.

I loved the Ostregel, it made me feel "normal" but I couldnt take the Uterogestan - I tried taking as initally prescribed, then (with advice from GP) taking it vaginally, and then taking it for 2/12 weeks, then patches.

Taking it 2/12 weeks worked the best - I still felt the horrible effects but at least it was for only 2 weeks or so every 3 months. Then I had to come off that as another GP said they couldn't support it.

Looking back I relaised I have been suffering the ill effects of progesterone intolerance since first being prescribed the pill as a teen.

The Mirena (from age 43) was dreadful but it took me 5 years to notice. I started the Mirena just after birth of DD2 and I was breastfeeding. I think the oxytocin countered the progesterone so by the time I was really starting to feel bad/depressed was after stopping BF. this was at the same time as I left XP - lots going on. I didn't connect 5 years of low mood with the Mirena. Once I clicked and had my 2nd Mirena removed after a few months the cloud I had been living under for so long quickly lifted. So do go carefully with that as an option - the "its remote so will be OK" isn't true for everyone.

The patches were by far the worst though - sledgehammer. Last time I took progesterone (we agreed to give the patches a try "its a different form of progesterone - more tolerable) after 5 days I couldnt get out of bed - completely immobilised. It took me 3 days to start to come right. I've only ever had this kind of thing happen on progesterone.

So now I am on an anti-depressant off book to treat the hot flushes. Its OK - not perfect,but ok. I miss the oestrogel. If you can't tolerate progesterone and you have a uterus there are very few options for HRT its seems.

Good luck working through the different options - be cautious and keep a track of what is going on.

@RobinEllacotStrike Do you know that recently ( 2 weeks ago) the NHS agreed to a new drug for flushes to be available on the NHS? It's been available for two years or so privately.

www.nice.org.uk/news/articles/500-000-eligible-to-benefit-from-new-non-hormonal-treatment-for-hot-flushes-caused-by-menopause

Also, there are women who can use long cycle HRT- like you were - on the condition they have a uterine scan every 6 months or so. It's in the BMS menopause guidance.

You'd probably need (private?) specialist input for these if your GP isn't up to speed but it might be worth it.

RobinEllacotStrike · 19/03/2026 16:11

Hi @JinglingSpringbells I did not know that - thank you.

I will ask my GP about trying this new drug, and I will ask the specialist about the scan option when I see them in October.

💐

@Reginaphalangeeeee everything crossed for you

cellobrew · 19/03/2026 16:48

I am sensitive to progesterone but only when I use it vaginally, orally its just fine. If you haven't tried it orally perhaps try that?

mildlysweaty · 19/03/2026 19:50

I’m on my second cycle of progesterone and not seeing any benefits from HRT whatsoever - oestrogel doing nothing on one pump and if I have any more gel it makes me feel completely wiped out. Not seeing the point of this, I went on HRT to help manage my extreme irritability and it’s made it worse :( mirena not an option for me (am nearly 46)

Moveyourbleedingarse · 19/03/2026 20:00

@mildlysweaty oestrogen gives you energy, progesterone takes it away in my experience.

Have you tried using more gel on days when you are on the progesterone?

mildlysweaty · 19/03/2026 20:51

Thank you @Moveyourbleedingarse❤️ can’t remember when I tried two pumps but it was honestly dreadful, I felt so weird on it in a drained way. Since starting HRT I’ve had the worst PMS and cramps in my life and seem to have lost the ability to proofread my work emails - as someone who’s always been a stickler for spelling and grammar this horrifies me!

Springly · 19/03/2026 21:01

Oh interesting - I started the patches, stuck it out for three months but found basically two weeks of pms on the progesterone was outweighing the oestrogen boost…didn’t realise it was so common.

Piggles1979 · 19/03/2026 21:11

Like you, I felt absolutely euphoric when I started oestrogen in Jan. I then had my cycle of progesterone and felt dreadful - fluey, stuffy-headed.
I was so worried when the second cycle came around but I was absolutely fine. No unpleasant side effects at all.
Had my three month check up last night and the doc has switched me to one progesterone tablet each night, to try to get sleep back on track.
All in all (and touching lots of wood here!!) I feel soooo much better.
Definitely worth sticking to it for another month or so, I would say.

CookingFatCat · 19/03/2026 21:52

Progesterone affected my orgasms, either didn’t happen or took forever!

Moveyourbleedingarse · 20/03/2026 08:24

CookingFatCat · 19/03/2026 21:52

Progesterone affected my orgasms, either didn’t happen or took forever!

Get some testosterone. My libido went through the roof.

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