I have had perimenopause for 4 years.
I'm on 3 pumps oestrogel and 12 days 200 utrogestan (oral, can't take vaginally). This combination stopped anxiety and generally made me feel better during peri.
I did still have low libido (plus low mood and motivation). A menopause doctor recently said I could try testosterone and I am awaiting blood tests to confirm. She said I could also try continuous utrogestan but want to do one thing at a time!
Meanwhile, I have been getting severe anxiety particularly in the mornings for the past 3 months - didn't mention to menopause doctor as didn't make link. My heart rate goes up to 150 bpm as I wake up (resting is 72bpm on average). This anxiety is mainly the week before I start utrogestan although I sometimes get it a little after but only for a couple of days. I now have a cardiologist appt! That said I strongly suspect this is hormonal too...
I have had also bad IBS just before utrogestan phase.
I clearly need to wait for the doctors to advise but interested to hear what others think and whether there's advice I can take on board.