I am 56 and my periods stopped years ago when I had chemo for Hodgkins Lymphoma but I haven't had any other menopause symptoms. I am married to a lovely man for almost 22 years and very happy with him. We have two grown up children. Sex was never the biggest thing in our relationship but for about the past year I have had absolutely no sex drive. I am on anti-depressants for anxiety (for about 20 years) which I never want to come off of as they have changed my life for the better. But they do lower sex drive and mean I often fail to orgasm. My husband is unbelievably patient and we have had sex a few times in the past year but not as many as he would like. He says he can understand me now wanting sex, but not why I don't want to be that close to him. I am at a loss as to what to do. We now sleep in separate bedrooms but that's because my husband is a very light sleeper and he gets a better night's sleep on his own. I sometimes worry that he will eventually get so fed up that he will want to break up with me, I love him so much and we have a happy marriage, apart from this one step back. Has anyone else experienced this? I can only put it down to menopause. If anyone else has found a cure, please let me know. I have a doctor's appointment to discuss it, but not until the end of April.