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Can't stop waking up at 4am

31 replies

GreenAlien · 05/02/2025 10:58

Does anyone have any magic remedies?

I tried HRT for a year and it did nothing. I tried magnesium and I think it made the quality of my sleep better but not the duration.

I have to work full time so I'm like a bloody zombie. I just seem to be completely wide awake any time between 4am and 430am and don't get back to sleep and then get up at 630am/7am for work.

It's affecting my life so much. Even taking a nytol and melatonin doesn't fix it (I think they both help with falling asleep rather than waking up). I've tried delayed release melatonin and that didn't work either!

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PaigeMac · 05/02/2025 13:04

I’ve had this for 10 years since peri through menopause…
tried most of the above suggestions but nothing really works 🤦‍♀️
I’ve changed my hours now so I start at lunchtime, when I wake up I make a hot milky drink then read for a couple of hours then go back to sleep for another couple of hours, I’ve just accepted this is my life now!

GreenAlien · 05/02/2025 13:24

Oh goodness we are all in the same boat!

I shall try the word thing tonight. I usually build houses in my head. Not sure why. It used to work but now I just keep building houses without falling asleep.

I'll try the extra magnesium too and see if it helps

I really hoped HRT would be the magic fix but it wasn't!

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SydneyCarton · 05/02/2025 15:26

@Sunshineandrainbow New Leaf magnesium glycinate - it's about a tenner on Amazon for 120 capsules, which is 60 days supply. I've also tried Beauty Pie's one, which worked fine but was more expensive, around £15 for members price. You want glycinate or bisglycinate, not citrate.

pananamana · 05/02/2025 15:27

I've found ashwagandha especially helpful for sleep and issues like this. It also helps with balancing hormones through the menopause.

GeorgeTheFirst · 05/02/2025 15:32

Yep, HRT didn't work for me either. Try drinking nothing after 7:00 p.m. and going to bed at 10.

Also try phenergan which is a drowsy antihistamine which you can buy in a pharmacy without a prescription x

Everintroverte · 05/02/2025 15:58

I struggle too, I can struggle to get to sleep when first in bed and also wake early and can't get back to sleep. I am currently trying a snoozeband (got a cheaper version from Amazon) and listen to brown noise. Seems to be working so far. Woke up at 5:00 Sunday morning, put the band back on with the brown noise and slept until 10!

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