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What age did you start HRT?

25 replies

herewegoagogo · 10/11/2024 21:49

I'm 43y...definitely have peri menopause symptoms. What age did you start HRT and do you regret not trying it earlier?

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Twizzletoe · 10/11/2024 21:55

Topical vaginal oestrogen for me at about 52. Systemic HRT at 56, flushes were getting disruptive to sleep as were really vivid anxiety filled dreams. I had hoped to delay until periods stopped but although they were getting more erratic the disturbed sleep needed to be sorted.

Twizzletoe · 10/11/2024 21:56

So in retrospect wish I’d asked six months earlier than I did. I just kept thinking/hoping that each period would be my last.

Blueberry40 · 10/11/2024 21:57

I was 43 and yes I regret not starting earlier but so glad I did start!

DramaAlpaca · 10/11/2024 21:58

I was 58. Yes, I wish I'd started a lot earlier. I was trying to get through it naturally and admitted defeat in the end.

dubmimi · 10/11/2024 22:01

I was 40 & wish I'd started at 37 when symptoms started but was told I was too young to be in peri menopause 🙄

LifeInAHamsterWheel · 10/11/2024 22:02
  1. I'm glad I started then, I hadn't been suffering too long (about 6-9 months) I have no regrets!
sunshineandshowers40 · 10/11/2024 22:04

45 years old when I started, probably should have started a year earlier but thought I could power through!

BedBathAndBeyonce · 10/11/2024 22:05

I was 45. Gaslit by 2 (2!!) male doctors who pushed Citalopram instead, before being prescribed HRT and it was like I got my life back.

JadziaD · 10/11/2024 22:06

47 I had symptoms that started years before but not so noticeable or specific. However, I think starting 12-18 months before wouldn't have done me any harm.

Mog65 · 10/11/2024 22:20

I was 41. Had to come of it at about 54 due to cysts in my breasts. Worst advice ever. Flushes day and night awful!

NeedToUnfreeze · 10/11/2024 22:22

43 but I needed it about 18 months earlier. Drs explored every alternative diagnosis first because they thought I was too young to be experiencing peri. Game changer once I did start.

Cece92 · 10/11/2024 22:32

dubmimi · 10/11/2024 22:01

I was 40 & wish I'd started at 37 when symptoms started but was told I was too young to be in peri menopause 🙄

What were hour symptoms if you don't mind me asking? I'm nearly 33 and my mums convinced I might be peri, I have had a few spontaneous hot flushes in the last few months. Still getting sporadic periods (on the pill) I don't feel different. X

Enough4me · 10/11/2024 22:35

46 it helped me enormously. I've been on it for almost a year. No brain fog anymore!

ChillWith · 10/11/2024 22:42

OP, definitely speak to your GP. Could be perimenopause but could also be thyroid problem (can cause feelings like over/under heating). I went to see my GP recently thinking I was perimenopausal (am 47) but she said it was something related to recent v stressful life event.

Level75 · 10/11/2024 22:45
  1. Should have been on it since 40 when I went to the GP with bad anxiety and other symptoms. I told him I thought I could be perimenopausal but he said I was too young and prescribed sertraline.
Geneticsbunny · 10/11/2024 22:53

43 hrt is amazing.

KnittedCardi · 10/11/2024 23:15

55 when I realised my anxiety and night sweats were probably menopause! Still having regular periods and no other symptoms so lucky in that respect. Been on for almost 3 years, just given up because the Progesterone was becoming problematic, and to see if I am in full menopause yet.

Choux · 10/11/2024 23:16

dubmimi · 10/11/2024 22:01

I was 40 & wish I'd started at 37 when symptoms started but was told I was too young to be in peri menopause 🙄

This is exactly the same story as mine. Still on HRT in my mid fifties. I need it for my bones.

Sadtosaythis · 10/11/2024 23:18

45, mirena coil and oestrogel.

KendraTheVampyrSlayer · 10/11/2024 23:27

44 and I'm glad I started when I did. It took me about 6 months to get it, but the difference it's made to my life is unbelievable.

zeddybrek · 10/11/2024 23:35

42, should have started about 6 months before I did but was fobbed off by GP suggesting I try anti depressants. I didn't, instead I did a ton of research and explained all 11 of my symptoms with blood test results to show it's not thyroid. Feels such a relief to feel like me again. Hair has stopped falling out. All my symptoms have cleared up and I have only been on it 6 weeks. I'm 43 now.

Bbq1 · 11/11/2024 00:09

37 - due to a combination of cancer (Chemo) swiftly followed by a compete hysterectomy sadly causing a premature menopause. I've been taking it for 11 years and due to come off it soon, hopefully. I wish I'd had a normal menopause obviously but the upside has been no periods for 11 years.

Anisty · 11/11/2024 00:32
  1. I was post menopausal and periods stopped for me at 48. I didn't need hrt when peri (though i could have done without the hot flushes, i managed) but after stopping my periods, a debilitating anxiety came from nowhere.

I suffered badly for 18 months before thepenny dropped that it was hormones. All lifted away like magic after 3 weeks on hrt.

So - 18 months earlier would have been better.

ClimbingMounjaro · 11/11/2024 02:57

dubmimi · 10/11/2024 22:01

I was 40 & wish I'd started at 37 when symptoms started but was told I was too young to be in peri menopause 🙄

I too was fobbed off for years from age 37, finally started at 43

herewegoagogo · 12/11/2024 22:02

Thank you so much everyone. I'm already on citalopram and recently had the Mirena fitted but my symptoms are still there so I'll go to the GP!

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