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Could this possibly be my "moment"?

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CuriousRunner · 15/10/2024 19:30

I have had a SHOCKING year. At times I've honestly felt like I was going mad. I would have welcomed the "men in white coats" with open arms! Or I was ready to break completely in two and do something like fake my own death or run away to a convent. I jest. But I don't want to downplay the mental pain and anguish. Short of actual self harm (other than wine to my liver) I was praying for it all to end.

My hrt journey hasn't been the 180 revolution that it is for some. I've had problems with absorption of patches etc etc. it was a long slow slog of try something, wait, try again and pray I don't get sacked or divorced in the meantime.

Progesterone has been the same all along. (2021)
Testosterone introduced 22nd August.
Most recent oestrogen dose tweak 13 days ago.

But yesterday and today I feel calm, clear, peaceful in the absence of anxiety. And this is despite employment being 10/10 crazy and a million other reasonable stressors which mean this shouldn't be the case. There are no external reasons that I can think of for this step change.

I want this "fix" to be the hrt. Because if it isn't then this random-ness is just too much to bare.

Praying this is the light at the end of the tunnel and not the fecking train!!

OP posts:
SwishMyCape · 15/10/2024 19:33

I'm rooting for you.

And it's not all or nothing - even if not 100% 'fixed' this could be the beginning of an upward trend.

Try not to worry. Enjoy today.

Jmess · 16/10/2024 09:25

Enjoy it , go with it
what was your Oestrogen tweak? Which testosterone are you on? I’ve been on androfeme for two weeks now. It’s already created less anxious thoughts
my head feels a bit giddy or headachy sometimes. Does it settle form after a while?

Getdowngetdown · 16/10/2024 09:38

I am the same! I upped my eostrogel to 3 pumps around 6 weeks ago (been on Hrt one year previously 2 pumps) and cannot believe the difference in my overall mood.
i am finally feeling joy again! I also started daily vit d and a magnesium complex at the same tIme so could be the triple whammy helping things.

Twentybottlesofbeer · 18/10/2024 08:41

It happened for me after 8 months of pisssing around and then adding T.

And this year I've started therapy/counselling which is really really helping too.

I'm finally dancing around the kitchen again. I hope you feel the same way too OP.

(caution - my own cycle is still going on in the background and so I still have PMT, plus shocking period cramps despite the Mirena, BUT overall I'm a happy woman again!)

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