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Anxiety overload

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Newnanny12 · 18/08/2024 20:02

Looking for light at the end of the tunnel.
I'm 53 going through the menopause, my anxiety hit an all time high at the beginning of 2023, I was constantly crying, electric shocks running through me, constantly in the fight or flight mode. Wanted to escape what was going on in my head.
Dr was great, put on HRT patches, and setraline 50mg, this went up to 100mg over time.
A few months back I felt in control but didn't like the constant numbness the higher dose brought, so with Dr help I gradually went back down to 50mg, for about a month I had more energy, happy feelings, but these last two weeks I've felt like I'm on edge, need to run, butterflies in the tummy, struggling to work, I've taken some sick days as I can't cope, I'm in the care industry so putting on a brave face when I feel like shit is so difficult. I've got a great family who really understand and an amazing friend who's really helped me. Please tell me there's light at the end of the tunnel, each day is a battle. I will speak to the Dr again tomorrow, sorry it's a long one.

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DustyLee123 · 18/08/2024 20:59

Have you Increased your oestrogen ever?

Newnanny12 · 18/08/2024 21:27

I've just been prescribed an estrogen spray on top of my patches taking me up to 75.
It will take 3 months for it to have an effect if it's going too.

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Frightenedbunny · 18/08/2024 21:32

OP ask your GP to change your patches to 100. Much easier. I have been through the same issue. Anxiety went through the roof (also work in care) so GP prescribed me an antidepressant too. In February I fell down the stairs and fractured my ankle. I truly believe it was because I was so spaced out with the antidepressants. Weaned myself off them and felt better but now it’s creeping up again!

Im 53 this year too. Bloody hate this menopause journey. Didn’t expect it to be this hard!

Newnanny12 · 19/08/2024 06:09

Thank you, I'm going to try and speak to a GP today. I can't carry on like this for much longer

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Saturdayafternoons · 19/08/2024 06:44

Yes definitely go higher on the patches.
And check what progesterone you are on - utrogestan made me feel exactly how you describe.

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